Life is never led alone; It is a bundle of relationships. The first and most important among them is the relationship between parents and children. Despite the parents’ best efforts, children sometimes turn into teenage rebels. Without caring about the people around them, they want to live only for themselves. They considered their parents a burden and an obstacle in fulfilling their strange desires. Love and care lose value. Showing disrespect towards the elderly, especially their parents, becomes the ultimate pleasure for them. This is stressful for the teenager as well as for the parents. Here we will discuss why such problems arise, how they can be dealt with and what preventive measures may save us from this psychological torture.
Training at an early age is a must
The world is a strange, strange experience for every child. He is completely ignorant of love or hate, vice or virtue. It is very important to introduce and inculcate, in the appropriate manner, these truths of life in the brains of the initiate, which will provide a firm foundation for the difficult years to come. These are the years when the sanctity of good values is taught. Relaxed behavior on the part of parents can shake up the entire personality structure. Adolescence or adolescence is the most difficult and confusing in itself. Changing physical and mental conditions, increasing responsibilities and serious efforts to adapt to the demands of society are indeed all-encompassing. Already in this case, the hollow personality tends to sins as a failed attempt to fill the void. A healthy and strong moral foundation keeps children from reeling in this difficult time.
Love and care are mandatory
Parents, who are so immersed in their own economic and social spheres, regarding giving time to children as secondary, suffer disastrous results. A child needs love and protection throughout his life but he needs it most in his childhood. Carelessness at this stage fills young minds with pent-up frustration. When they are more independent and socially free, they notice defiant behavior. They value nothing more than the expectations held towards them. Children are the most important investment in life, so always consider their little feelings and emotions important. When you are a teenager, you are going through such a difficult period of life that you must assure them of your love and support. Be willing to accept mistakes wholeheartedly and give full assistance in correcting them. Attention deficit causes teens to feel complacent about insulting social norms and enjoying bad habits. Being a father doesn’t just mean a title, but also a huge responsibility and a full-time job.
Moderation is key to perfect training
Moderation is the key to perfect training. Unnecessary punishments, which prevent children from enjoying the necessities of life, stifle them and force them to rebel. They show disrespect and hatred for parents. Every child has his own self-respect. All the time scolding and reprimanding would be a huge blow to her. Many other methods can be adopted to improve the young mind rather than diminish it.
Avoid unnecessary indulgence
If authoritarian behavior is harmful, there is plenty of indulgence. Inconsistent discipline encourages youngsters to venture into forbidden realms. It is necessary to explain to the child what habits are good, and what are bad, and out of love he cannot be allowed to cross the line. Children have freedom and decision-making but it must be achieved, and they are very welcome to exercise it as long as they show responsibility and maintain confidence.
Patience and give space
Children in development are usually found criticizing their parents, dismissing their choices and viewing them as an undue burden. Such problems can be overcome with healthy talk. It is not necessary to force a child to dress, eat, sleep or speak according to our will. Let him express a somewhat harmless experience, listen to them, their problems, and help them as a friend. Children should be given a healthy atmosphere for their individual identification.
The difference between reality and fantasy world
With comfort and convenience, the modern age has also brought a number of problems, children witness independence and many other luxuries that others enjoy through the internet or TV plays but find devoid of. The negativity filled unconsciously, in this way, can be released by channeling from time to time. Explain to them the difference between the world of fantasy and reality. The dialectical teen is actually searching for his own identity and individuality but this can only be allowed through appropriate methods.